It doesn't matter what you chat about at night, what matters is that you chat. Let a loving person be the last thing your child (wether a little kid or late teen) goes to bed with.
I am yet again amazed at your wisdom and insights @metzli. Seriously, you need to get all these into a parenting or educational book. Check out @steemiteducation and perhaps join their discord too. Your posts have got to gain more visibility, I'm serious! :)
I will look into it again. Thank you for your confidence.