I think you highlight very clear points of how things happen in different people's lives and it is possible that sometimes you do not see things in the best way and they simply pass because they have to happen and you do not understand it because instantly the shock of reality is very strong and as time passes one analyzes and knows that it was correct, it is possible that our bubble has to go through blows to learn since the experience is something that is achieved with good and bad blows however I think we have to analyze better things before doing them because sometimes they are done and they do not think, we have to be better people and if we have the power to use it for good and not to contribute to evil