Can I begin by saying that it is perfectly normal for an eight year old child to cry when bullied in the manner you were. I am glad your brother came to your rescue but as one of the adults in the described situation, he was only doing what might be expected of any adult.
Most of us live in families composed of quite different personalities to our own and we can often be very self critical when we compare ourselves with the 'idealised' version of another family member.
I would agree with 'rip-youtube' that as we grow, we tend to be more understanding and comfortable with those aspects of ourselves that are not the easiest. Of course, I would agree with you too, that we have a very definite responsibility, to grow, develop and work on those areas where progress is desireable and achievable.
I am not however sure that we can assume what we might see to be a burden, is necessarily viewed in the same way by another person. I think this is especially true in the context of loving relationships. We all talk to ourselves (or the mirror) but naturally what is reflected back is what makes sense to us. Perhaps we all need to communicate more with those who love us, and really listen to and hear what feedback they give us.
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