How about we your ardent followers suggest a topic and you write about it?
I have been planning this for awhile but haven't trialled it yet.
I have been having a very hard time trying to make her change but she keeps saying it's her personality.
She will change by herself or won't, that is her life to lead. But, personality can change massively, it just needs the right conditions. We are all much more malleable than we care to admit and we have many sides to us. Under the right conditions, one person can be capable of great cruelty or compassion. maybe it can't change if you see it as already containing every facet but, which face is shown certainly can change.