That's why I always try to make my own goals based on what I think will make me happy. And try never to compare my own progress with others, if I find myself doing this for even a moment I stop myself.
I also think finding joy in the simple is so important to the soul. And to rest and regroup to continue on your own path towards goals, it's like those moments of quiet rest are a palette cleanser almost to clear your head of worry. For me, it's being unplugged and in the garden. That makes my soul sing and keeps me grounded.