because most men will openly admit that this quality is one which they find enormously attractive in a woman, yet most of them only seem to be comfortable with it, "from a distance" if you will... and the one primary thing that attracted them to you in the first place, often eventually becomes the one attribute of yours which they cannot handle further down the line.
That covers 90% of men. lol. They love the theory, but hate the reality. (idiots)
hahahahahaha true story!
Not the same sport, but in the same ball park....
https://steemit.com/blog/@lucylin/short-story-looking-in-the-mirror-and-feeding-the-beast