Sounds rough but reminds me of having to wait 3 months for a new roof on my first house (in Portugal), back in 2019. Every week I was told that they would start next Monday but they kept delaying it because it might rain ( meanwhile I had already paid 10 thousand Euros. It gave me such stress that I ended up with such severe stomach pain that I needed an IV drip. Although back then I thought that was caused by drinking contaminated water/bacteria ( that's what the 'experts' told me ).
By the way, I had to send a very tough email today, to my twin sister, telling her that I changed my mind about being a witness at her (bureaucratic) marriage ( for paperwork/VISA reasons), as the relationship with her boyfriend of almost 2 years ( and soon to be father of her child ) feels very toxic. It felt super difficult because I have long been a people pleaser/diplomat and she is my twin sister ( and the mother of my amazing niece and nephew ) but @clareartista helped me with taking this important decision, after she met my sister and boyfriend, two days ago, and feeling into it. It sure helps that she has heard me talking about their unhealthy relationship, basically since the two of them got together and man have I tried to talk sense into my sister, to no avail. Let's see what today's email will lead to. No matter what, it felt like the right decision ( and I talked to my mom on the phone about it, earlier today, so fingers crossed.
Sending love and good vibes ❤️🤗
what a glorious example for saying no. seems like a good decision and it may lead to unforeseen gifts to be delivered to all involved. well done <3