Erika! 😃 Nice to see you around :)
I like the question 'What do I win?' very much. It provides an entire different perspective to the outcome. And, in the end, I believe it was this sort of thinking that pushed him to make the decision to go and talk to her.
I was worried about how he would react in case Emma rejected him. But, despite feeling pretty bue for a couple of days, he dusted himself off and accepted the whole experience as a step towards getting to know himself better.
It is incredible how just deciding to look at something from a positive or negative angle changes how we feel not only about ourselves, but about an entire event.
You take care.
Much love to you always :*
Thank you! :) Encouragement is the best we can do for each other.
We all need support from the people we deal with and helping friends to take up courage is always good. Perspective changing I find myself difficult when I deal with a difficult situation and I am so glad that I got people who help me finding other perspectives I myself wouldn't have come up with.
I send you my love, too!