molestation also caused me to have extreme anxiety that I cant control and body language gives it away. Predators seek out vulnerable people. I had drinks with someone I met multiple times, my friends met him, he seemed fine, was a star pupil was funny and did not at all shout rapist, he likely drugged me, and I ended up raped. I in no way "gravitated" toward that.
I think a lot more stock should be put into the fact that rape and molestation makes a person have anxiety and depression and they become easy targets. Sociopaths are charismatic as fuck and fool EVERYONE and they seek out those people. Does that make sense?