I see you have edited, but its a shame that a small minority of ***holes can appear to be a larger faction than they are. I think its partly because its so offensive ugly and we'd like to hope it wasn't even as common as that ,even if it is only 2 people, that its very noticeable.
I understand what you're saying, but I will share that personally I don't feel its fair or accurate or helpful to assume males are siding with the rapist, but I know you were just commenting on what you noticed, and made a note that it changed.
yes, I too am imperfect. Being fair and balanced is what I strive for. But I suppose my past mind-control programming is still wreaking havoc. I do not like making people feel bad. But I also want to create a place where people will not be abused emotionally.
yeah, it happens. I have definitely had times I shared my stories and got tons of hate from mostly males and no defense depending on the forum and it seemed like that was happening when you posted. And as female victims its easy for that to hurt and jade us but I am so glad to see its not the norm. :)