What would she have done differently? Not drink? Not trust men? Not leave her house? There is no way to know what a safe situation is and what isn't. I was raped by my ex boyfriend. How would I avoid that? People who have been raped need to trust people, they need to feel safe in doing so, telling a victim that its their fault for getting into a dangerous situations just enhances anxiety and trust issue. You are not helping at all here.
What is the purpose of posting your comment? Why is important for you to have this conversation here?
Victim Syndrome is part of narsassitic personality disorder, which is a rare mental disorder, and unless you are her psychologist you have no way of knowing if she has it or not, so bringing it up is absolutley pointless.
It took a LOT of courage to post this. I need some time. :)
I don't have it tho. LOL -_- I do have extreme anxiety, agoraphobia, and depression caused by my past, which may make me an easy target to super charismatic sociopaths that fool everyone, even non victims in other ways, victims are just their targets.
I should do a blog at some point on victim blaming. When I have the courage.