Because Lauralemons has experienced more unwarranted verbal grief from some of the people commenting, she is being rewarded with 50 SD as compensation for her discomfort and her courage to bring up such a raw and terrible reality.
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You just changed my day dramatically. I was shaky and fighting off cries most of the day after posting this. Not just from these comments but people on fb too. Thank you. You seeing this and doing something to make my day helps more than you realize. More that 50 SD even. Like you changed my life even beyond the awesomeness of the 50 SD just by getting it and seeing the oppression and doing something . <3 <3 <3
That is my job. I was also abused about 4 times and I'm a very strong, intelligent person. I was victimized as a 4 year old girl for the first time, then a male friend molested me while I had fallen asleep. And as an adult I experienced the worst of all: a sociopath who had a double personality: the one he projected to world was peace loving God-fearing Martial Arts master and the real personality was a psychopathic violent criminal. I realized after 9 months but by then it was too late. I was pregnant. So guess what, I got to live through the horror of realizing that the person who had impregnated me was an evil person. I kicked him out of my house 2 days after baby was born in order to save me and my child from a life of terror. I was a trusting, loving person and I didn't know about sociopaths. I learned perhaps the greatest lesson of my life with that and it has increased my capacity to help heal those who have suffered at the hands of very sick people. You are the original love and hope of this world.
Aw, thank you for telling me your story. <3 :') People are telling me how strong I am for sharing and how I give them courage to share and it keeps me going but if I am honest I become a mess when I get comments blaming me still. You really did change my perspective today. I was kinda bitter and jaded from some of these comments and you restored my faith in humanity. ^_^
We live in a rape culture. Ignorance is also rampant. Empathy is devalued. It's possible to create a better world and it requires that we all stand up for those who cannot defend themselves. We need to be strong to pull this off.