Nice show ma. Tackling relationship issues and helping people with their love lives.
I feel you love her for you to have her in your thoughts and even asked for advice. If you didn't care, you might not even be bothered let alone of asking for advice.
At a point in some girls' lives, we get a lot of toasters and it can be very confusing who to pick.
But it's a phase, after that time, the numbers of toasters might reduce.
Will suggest you talk with her about things. Ask yourself some questions: If you want her back?, Is she someone you want in your life for a short term or long term?
Also, ask her what she wants from you. Don't play any games with her. To avoid being the cause of someone's heartbreak.
You can check out my blog @esttyb. There is this relationship post I put up.
Also, @aderonkemi , has a post on her blog about women and their insecurities.You can check it out.
Trying to understand women can be confusing at times.
But with proper communication, you can both be sure of what you want.
Also, you both need to watch out for extreme jealousy.
The fact that she went and slept over at a guy's house. Shows that there is a need for both sides to talk on the terms and conditions if there will be a relationship.
And if not , be good friends and try not to talk about your dating relationships to reduce jealous tendencies.
You also need to give yourselves some space sometimes.
Amazing.
Thanks deary, your contribution is greatly appreciated.