Yes you are right, like I mentioned above too, married people can only source help from people whi can and hope that things turn around... according to you and factual too, life is too short.
It is left for the unmarried to learn from the experience of the married. You should not just continue to hope he would change which is nit likely to happen the best thing is to move on and live a better life because once you endure and marry him it would really be difficult to walk out especially when kids are featured already.
Please no one should suffer and die in silence, life is really very short to be spent in pain and sorrow.
Every young and unmarried individual should be make a right decision. Thank you @maintain4real-eu for stopping by. Your comment was full of knowledge and beautiful.