I have allot of experience with break ups and for me the following was the best method to get them out of my life and mind.
- Wipe them out of your life , bin anything that is a reminder of them and wipe every digital trace.
- Go out have some fun, go dance, bungi jump, ride a bike whatever just go have fun and embrace your freedom, yes it wont be easy but push through and do it.
- Spend some time with friends or family the chit chat will take your mind off things.
- Get under, get behind, get on top of someone, whatever your flavor it helps break the connection but don't get hooked on them something casual and wild works but be sure you are not going to get back with the ex as its a deal breaker. (save this step as a last resort your body is precious).
- Go give yourself some TLC....no not the hand or vibrator kind lol, go get a new hair cut, some clothing, a tattoo, massage there is really allot you can pamper yourself with.
- Realise that this is a battle of heart, mind and soul but day by day it WILL get better.
Yeah, I think some people probably can have fun getting under someone else casually that's why I pointed out it may help some but jumping into another relationship is a BAD idea.
I like your advice. :)
Hey Laura thank you, and thank you for inspiring me to write my own post :)
https://steemit.com/steemit/@mrgrey/how-to-get-over-your-ex-after-a-breakup-move-on-with-life-and-perhaps-find-yourself-a-new-love