This is very disheartening situation @oluwatobiloba, but I would start by commending the lady for that great step she took and I would not be bias because am a guy that doesn't mean, we should paid people who are our benefactor with evil.
If am in the position, where am being saved by my woman, ever since that day I would make sure she never had even a rethink of that all scenario that transpired that night again with the love and care that I would shower on her.
But we are quite different and our way of thinking is also quite
different, that why the way we handle matters sometimes are also different.
But to be sincere to the matter enough, the husband must first apologize to the lady for treating her badly after saving his life. Then they can now go for counseling after.
This is good too. That man need someone to readjust him. Does he think the woman enjoyed being humiliated like that?
I wonder oo
Thanks brother, I appreciate your consistency.