Yes. This is very true, like you said our best isn't gone because our spouses has been snatched from us.
Its said we should be able to let go off things,if it comes back to us then we know it ours forever. I wish we'd indulge this too in this context.
Thank you @gloglo for this post. Its really nice.
Thank yiu for that wonderful contribution my friend.
I agree too. Letting go helps our heart to heal.