Honestly recognizing that is going to serve you well. There's no point in forcing something that you aren't ready for. Hope things work out for you!
Also this is where I mention that no advice should be taken as an absolute. I decided that week I met my fiance that I was going to wait to have my shit together before dating due to a Tinder fling that made me realize I'm not sure I was ready to date. So stick to your guns, but be open in case something unexpected happens.