This is just too detailed, I think it is universal because you explained it exactly the same way it happens in my country... Hahaha
I think one of the reasons why woman refused to say yes when first approached by the man is for them to prove his love level for them. They want to see how far he can go to get what he want... Smile
But like you rightly said, men only initiate the move when they felt something special about the woman.
I hope the woman are here to read for themselves how we feel about them before approaching them.. Smile.
I don't like the idea of match making, it takes the power of choice away from the woman, she might say yes just to please the superior authorities, and she end up struggling to love.
If all that seems to you tedious, archaic and boring, you are correct.
It isn't, but still waiting for the part two to see which direction you are taking us... Hug