I can certainly see the attraction of a single life. What I would give to have a few days to myself every now and then! But in a few hours when they wake the fun will begin... and I won't care any more :) One thing I do want to say is that I didn't feel ready when Sabrina told me she was pregnant. Both times! It wasn't planned, so hard to feel ready. The important thing is being prepared to shift with the wind. Interestingly, having kids actually made me way more responsible with money and I started saving for the first time in my life.
Now all I need is the crypto market to boom and I won't have to think about that any more ;)
Thanks for the personal comment. Family is certainly formative to a person's development.