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RE: SECRET WRITER: I Feel Like An Alien Among People In My Country

in #secret-writer9 years ago

This person need defensively a lot of person development courses , Pessimism is the most dangerous thing that can destroy our life , I feel said for him or her but that will never change any thing if he pr she change thoughts about life and people

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pessimism does indeed kill. There really must be a balance.
A spell of intense optimism and total disregard for danger almost killed me.
I've been also affected by intense darkness.
An important lesson also that i've learned: most people take time to get to know.
It's more helpful to remain objective, friendly and helpful in the beginning stages of friendship.
Then, slowly, we can unwind, showing our painful sides. People don't want to be a therapist.....

I used to be more "popular" and conforming to ther people's tastes earlier in my life.

Once I understood better what I like and went for it regardless of what other people think, I became less "popular", but much happier.

Darkness is in you and only you can remove it.

ah yes, it is important to shed the popular ideas for ones that you actually like.