Many would call this "coercive" and classify it as rape. If this happened to a woman it would be considered largely to be rape. I'm really sorry this happened to you, what she did was shitty.
I think a lot of women feel really powerless, so they feel in order to get what they want they have to be emotionally manipulative. These are the same women who hit and push their boyfriend's around because they feel like nothing they're doing makes any difference. They might as well be hitting a brick wall. There's that bullshit out there that "men always want sex" and therefore with that mindset they can't really reject you.
Thank for sharing this!
Thanks for your thoughts!!! I agree completely.. Whether "rape" is the right word, a lot of people would be more likely to regard it as that if it was a guy doing it to a girl.
I do have a lot of thoughts about this stuff, and I guess these comments are kind of helping me think stuff thru too. So thanks so much, and I might make a new post with kind of my general thoughts about all the feedback and stuff.