Thanks!! You should share it imo. I felt really good after, cause it's something I've just had on my mind and never really put into words before. Feels good to just get it into the open.
I think people would probably SAY it's wrong for women to "go right for it" but really they might have a different standard for men and women. I don't know if I even mind the double standard really, I just wish people would be less like "that's gay" or whatever for feeling manipulated, and I'm really happy to be able to talk about it on here.