Really? Wow - how did he get away with that - I mean it is pretty hard for a man to do it without being seen or to hide it?
Seems I missed the sentence that made that clear lol! I think I was reading it with my own mental prejudices in action because of the way that porn is usually constructed.
yes, you are not used to real sex stories, only porn that is fabricated for the male fantasy. Most porn is as you know, not real. It doesn't fully show what is in a woman's mind. At least that's what I tend to suspect.
Also, I think people are not used to hearing erotic stories written by men. Most romance writers are women. This adds a very unique spin on the secrets. I learned a lot with this one too, and was unaware that men would be touching themselves while on the bus. That's pretty gutsy. While I have done that while driving in my car, I don't think I could relax enough to do it on a public bus. This says something about the carefree nature of the secret writer. Strange isn't it!
Yes. It's certainly true. It is very rare to read these kind of stories written by men - we are used only reading them from women. I think there is also an inherent bias that makes it more acceptable for women to write about things like this i.e. if a woman writes it is erotic and if a man writes it is considered "dirty" or unsavoury. I think this is a reflection of power structure in our mostly male-dominated societies. A woman writing about this is exhibiting sexual empowerment whilst a man is just doing what men do.
Also I think a man caught masturbating on a public bus would potentially get into a lot more trouble than a woman. For one thing it would be much harder to hide it (obviously) and the criminal connotations would due to the situation be more serious.
Wow, I think I can assure you that most men don't actually masturbate on the bus.
That's pretty hard to do unnoticed and things tend to get messy. Of course if the bus has a toilet, that's a whole different story haha. Question is, did the guy mean touch himself as actual masturbation, or did he just mean sort of playing with his dick, that would have made much more sense.
👍nice post @stellabelle
Really? Wow - how did he get away with that - I mean it is pretty hard for a man to do it without being seen or to hide it?
Seems I missed the sentence that made that clear lol! I think I was reading it with my own mental prejudices in action because of the way that porn is usually constructed.
yes, you are not used to real sex stories, only porn that is fabricated for the male fantasy. Most porn is as you know, not real. It doesn't fully show what is in a woman's mind. At least that's what I tend to suspect.
Also, I think people are not used to hearing erotic stories written by men. Most romance writers are women. This adds a very unique spin on the secrets. I learned a lot with this one too, and was unaware that men would be touching themselves while on the bus. That's pretty gutsy. While I have done that while driving in my car, I don't think I could relax enough to do it on a public bus. This says something about the carefree nature of the secret writer. Strange isn't it!
Yes. It's certainly true. It is very rare to read these kind of stories written by men - we are used only reading them from women. I think there is also an inherent bias that makes it more acceptable for women to write about things like this i.e. if a woman writes it is erotic and if a man writes it is considered "dirty" or unsavoury. I think this is a reflection of power structure in our mostly male-dominated societies. A woman writing about this is exhibiting sexual empowerment whilst a man is just doing what men do.
Also I think a man caught masturbating on a public bus would potentially get into a lot more trouble than a woman. For one thing it would be much harder to hide it (obviously) and the criminal connotations would due to the situation be more serious.
Wow, I think I can assure you that most men don't actually masturbate on the bus.
That's pretty hard to do unnoticed and things tend to get messy. Of course if the bus has a toilet, that's a whole different story haha. Question is, did the guy mean touch himself as actual masturbation, or did he just mean sort of playing with his dick, that would have made much more sense.