How to make a woman orgasm

Women are beautiful, wonderful, complicated creatures. The way they are wired is different from men. Their attributes are distinct from men, and the sooner we realise and admit this fact, the better chance we have of getting our female partners to climax during sex.

Reality can be harsh but sometimes the truth is even harder, and the fact is, you don't know how to please your woman sexually. Even though, you would like to believe that you have what it takes to be a great lover for her. The fact of the matter is, if you are not making her have an orgasm each, and every single time the two of you become intimate with one another, then you are just not doing something right. Here are some things that might help when it comes to how to make a woman orgasm.

1. Talk To Your Woman

Chances are you can improve how you communicate with your partner. It might be that allowing her to express her fears or feelings without feeling like she's being judged will be enough to allow her to let go sexually. The most important sex organ for a woman is her brain, so try your best to find out what's going on in there. If she doesn't feel safe with you, she will try to keep you at a distance. Having an orgasm is a very vulnerable position to put yourself in because you lose control. That can be a very scary thought for a woman who isn't sure where she stands with you.

2. Let Your Woman Show You

This isn't possible if your partner has never had an orgasm, but if she can masturbate but not orgasm with you, then having her masturbate with you might be a good way to help her to let go. This shouldn't be about some show she puts on for you. You should do it together so that each of you is as vulnerable as the other. Alternatively, she could show you how to touch her by having her take your hand to touch herself. This should be done under the covers so that she feels less exposed.

3. Oral Sex

If you don't engage in oral sex, you should because it is the easiest way to get her to climax. That doesn't mean it's as simple as getting your tongue down there but direct contact with the clitoris is much easier that way than with penetration, we would also reccomend sometimes an additional lubricant to assist with the sensitivity - we reccomend the industry leading Wicked Sesnsitve Lubricant.

Another technique that you need to master is the ability to turn her on without even touching her so when you do finally reach her; she will be blown away with your touch. Making your woman orgasm can also be done with words and looks. Your mobile phone is a reliable tool that can be utilised to get her aroused, that she won't be able to keep her hands off of you when she sees you. Want to know how to do that? The best way to get her going before you even see her is to set the tone early on in the day with some sexy and steamy text messages. By sending her something in detail about what you are dying to do to her later on, it will let her know that you are thinking about her sexually and that you are dying to please her. Start off with some pretty PG-rated language and gradually make things hotter.

On a final note, the strategy is to learn what it takes to make a woman orgasm. Did you know that it is possible for a woman to have a total of three orgasms? An orgasm from clitoral stimulation, from G-spot stimulation and a combination of the two. That means that if it doesn't happen from sex, you still have oral method and if it didn't happen that way, you could still use sex toys and vibrators.