What I was going to say has already been said to you by someone else... ;)
It's about who we meet. Some people are experts at sucking energy. Fill yourself with good energy in nature and try to find balance.
Solve your inner deficiencies. This is the first step. We are programmed from birth to think that there must be someone out there to help us with this. However, nothing could be further from the truth. We are on our own.