I'm with @catoranking with what he said about sex not being all about a relationship. True that it needs to be revisited, however I don't think having sex before marriage is something that should be considered before the two say "I do". Sex cannot and is not a determinant of love. After all many who don't love each other have had sex several times. Take the prostitutes for example. So two people may not love each other but still be having sex just to quench their sexual desires, married or not.
However, I see your point. Good one.
@triana
Thanks a lot for your view.
however I don't think having sex before marriage is something that should be considered before the two say "I do"
Do you believe this will not give room for bedroom surprises, I mean, getting into a life time entanglement without knowing your partner?
All the same, I really appreciate your opinion, thanks once again.
Thanks.
Concerning your question, you see, I was really trying hard to say what I needed to say without sounding "religious". However, these things happen, I'm not an expert in such, I even pray I don't get a disappointing surprise too. However, the point I'm trying to make now has kind of been replied to with this your statement, "... For better for worse is easy to say..".
It may be easy to say, but one needs to take those vows seriously. It's a covenant and the God we serve doesn't break covenants. One who really follows Christ should hold on to that standard regardless of the eternal risk..
Besides, true love should actually surpass that. Yes, seems impossible and impracticable, but one who has come to KNOW God will know that such should not determine the love
Selah
Alright dear...
Thanks so much, I really appreciate.
No problem. My pleasure.
Nice one...exciting!