Proud to be a Steemit Groupie, but With a Warning

in #steemit7 years ago

I am probably Steemit's biggest fan. Call me a groupie, I don't care, I will follow Steemit till the apocalypse. I'll hand sew sequins on costumes, sing praises off-key in my raspy voice for all who will listen (and even those who won't) while in line, and wait behind the concert hall in hopes I catch a glimpse so I can faint in a star struck heap of bliss.

Ok, ok, call me a groupie- I do care. Steemit is my Rock Star and I'm proud to be a Steemit groupie ;)

I am blessed to have a wonderful following of loyal and good hearted people, people who work hard and play hard. People who I am proud to know. I learn so much from my tribes posts, we laugh and we cry, and we are here for each other through life's hardships. We truly are a community in every sense of the word, and I am happy coming here every day.

I have faith in the platform. Steemit has changed so many lives already. And it will continue to do so. Strike that- the people of Steemit change lives. That is a more accurate statement. It is the community that makes or breaks it, and the community of Steemit.com is comprised of strong, generous, encouraging, hard working, supportive and ever giving rebels, rebels with a heart, who strive hard to succeed and know we all succeed by standing together for our shared goal of self sufficiency and decentralization and a better life for all.

But, sometimes dangerous wolves slip on in, disguised and charming in their wooly garments. And we are so used to the goodness here that we accept them as one of the flock, trusting them and embracing them with all our hearts because that is who we are.

Be sure yours is not the tale of having fallen victim to the charismatic wolf, sweeping in all sexy and stylish and holding all the answers, dangling the keys like manna from the heavens. His sweettalk melting us into a smouldering hot mess, saying yes yes yes despite the fact our little moral voice telling us no no no.

He is not to be trusted. He is the rebel with a shameful cause. Whispering sweet nothings in your ear, he will talk you up and make you feel orgasmic in your hope, all the while planning your demise. He is the fast talking grifter here for a quick roll in the sack and will swipe your purse as he's slipping out the door while you lay in a intoxicated sprawl with a smile on your face.

It was not personal. You were not his first, nor will you be his last.

He is the con artist. The scammer. The debonaire hustler full of confidence and lacking in shame.

Love your fellow Steemitzens. Embrace them each as they come into the fold, fully and exceptionally. But keep an ever watchful eye out. The wolf is sneaky, you will never see him coming until he is long gone.

Take care of you first and foremost. Only trust after trust is well earned, and still then never give everything. Remember some are dressed for the long game.

Love your fellow Steemitzens, but love yourself first and if it sounds too good to be true take a step back and just observe for a while.

If it sounds too good to be true...

...well, you know the rest ;)

Enjoy the Steemit tunes but go straight home after each concert and they will play for you evermore...


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I have faith in the platform. Steemit has changed so many lives already. And it will continue to do so. Strike that- the people of Steemit change lives. That is a more accurate statement.

The above statement is very powerful and passionate. I'm glad to be part of this revolutionary social media and for meeting great friends like you. I steem, therefore I am.

I steem, therefore I am :) Love it!

This a spectacular place to be and an extraordinary time to be living <3

Thank you!

I was going to quote the same passage. Its amazing how this community helps so many, its is however sad their are scammers "wolves in sheep's clothing" but they exist in all areas of life, so its very hard to avoid. It took me a while to see it on steemit but the longer you are exposed to the environment the easier it is to see.

I'm loving the discord channels to enhance the community aspect and to get to know more about my steemian friends.

Yes, the longer you're here the more you'll spot them. Buy, this is good in a way- you learn to be about to see the mannerisms and pretend yourself and the rest of the community.

The Discord groups are absolutely a wonderful way to get to know your fellow Steemitzens :)

Well, my amazing friend. Love you too. :)

And I don't blame you for being a Steemit groupie. I am as well. lol I love this platform and how it is changing peoples lives for the better. Everybody had equal opportunity to succeed on here if they invest time and write quality posts.

Or simply just by sharing their life stories. And, that is amazing. I mean you know what is crazy? WE ARE STILL IN BETA? lol

It is going to get even BETTER. Just think about that for a moment. :) lol

High five to my fellow Steemit groupie. lol

I know! I can't wait to see the features! AND we are in it from the beginning... This is going to be so big!

You and me both. It is going to be amazing :)

I love the style in which you wrote the post. It's a great reminder. As we get comfortable with steemit, That is when we are more likely to slip up, and as steemit grows it'll attract more wolves. Not to mention human nature dictates the possible temptations to play wolf for a day. Nice post. I've accidentally given away more then I'd to admit from my own mistakes. I don't need any help from the wolves. Lol

Exactly!

Lol, you can do it just fine on your own! I resemble that remark;)

Pretty sweet warning @arbitrarykitten!
Rock 'n Roll Steemitzens!

Thanks :)

You're welcome :)


The wolf of steem street

MuaHaahaaa yes

I honestly think I needed this tonight. I been searching through steemit for something relaxing yet informative to read. This was insightful... I think I will resteemit.

So glad you enjoyed it!

A good warning its hard for it to have the same feel with steem being up 6x-10x from where it was just a few short months ago. But for sure we are building a massive community here in which we need to take care of.

Well said! Many people complain that @steemcleaners and @cheetah and others need to work harder to capture the ne'erdowells, however they work horribly long hours for little pay, there are only so many of them. It is truly up to each and every one of us who care about our community to keep vigilant and stand strong as a group.

This seems like @arbitrarykitten's ten commandments of steemit, this is all good from you, I mean we have all been a beneficiary of steemit and I guess it's time we make love count on the platform, awesome from you

Well said <3

Thank you milady 😁😁😁😁

Another great post d(-_☆) I've been on Steemit for a week now, and I can say that I'm fast becoming a groupie too. It's really a great community with a lot of diverse but all the same, great, writers.
And what a way to warn people about shady people lurking around, in a way that doesn't call for a witchhunt.

Well, I am not here for strife or drama. I am the advice columnist and Steemit HelpLine ;) Oh, and hold the How To Queen Crown, honorably bestowed by our very own @papa-pepper (cheers and jazz hands)

And of course the WorldWeaver- but that is for purely selfish purposes ;)

Happy to have you, you will go far here :)

Thank you so much <3

It's a pleasure to read what you wrote v( ̄∇ ̄)

Hey A K, very good advice you have given in a way people should be able to identify with, rock stars and groupies. Anytime there is something of value that can be seen, there will be some scumbag looking for a way to scam it from the legitimate owner for sure. Keep your keys and passwords protected for sure is the best way, never share them with anyone, and avoid responding to messages that show up in your wallet from people you are unfamiliar with.

Absolutely 100% true.

Thank you S&P!

I think every Social Media platform struggles with this issue. It's up to the users not to get caught up in things that don't seem right. And thankfully for other Steemit groupies, you are here to remind us :).

Yeah, we can so easily get comfortable here, it feels like home, and nothing ever happens in your home! Lol

Thank you so much :(

It does feel like home, actually more like a village. Luckily the scammer never stays around for long ;)

Yes! They quickly move on to the next get rich quick scheme, when they realize Steemit is not a scheme :)

Always need to tread wisely and carefully on social platforms. Very interstingly written :)

indeed you are a die hard steemian same here i have started following you.i wish some day we meet in future.

I will be at Steemfest 3! Lets meet there :)

No need talking much, steemit is my home @arbitrarykitten

Steemit is the best home on the web, bar none :)

One certainly needs friends on Steemit platform. As you rightly call it, the tribe. Either you make a new tribe here or bring your own :D

Or a combination of both :)

wisdom no one can take is often the sweetest...

And mice with no whiskers are not to be trusted...

Steemit is now my primary social media platform, largely for the same reasons you mentioned. I’m here for a reason and that reason is to engage with people.

Mine too. I'm rarely elsewhere unless work requires it, lol

Feelings are almost same😊

Good to hear :)

I admire your love and passion for Steemit. It is very true that Steemit has grown large communities already. I can attest that in my country.

Why you use 'He' is interesting ?.....mmmmm. Sit on my couch, why don't you..lol
The (very) few disingenuous I have come across, have been all female 100%. (or purport to be, anyway)

That's the thing- with my being a female most scammers targeting me would be male. And vice versa. Just the way it is...

Ah!.... A very interesting point you have, mademoiselle..👍

This post got me thinking about ....(you will definitely enjoy it!) this.

Steemit has been really good to me- up until I started using it, I'd really been struggling as a freelance writer.

Succeeding as a freelance writer is a very long and difficult struggle. So much so that most have to give up just to survive.

Steemit is changing that!

That is so good to hear :)

I was making it before- but only just barely, and only with the addition of my student loans.

@arbitrarykitten your picture of Matt Bomber just got me as a follower. As for your content I'm loving it you are with out a doubt a true steemian. Thank you for writing the post.

Thank you so much! I'm so happy you find my thoughts and reports inspiring :)

I tried to get this post over $13.00 I guess I miscalculated....... @arbitrarykitten.

Thank you so much for your support, you are appreciated <3

I feel much the same about steemit, honestly. So many awesome people but yep there are a few wolves. Great post as usual. Thanks for sharing

Just keep an eye out and your wallet tucked safely away and you'll be fine :)

Thanks hun <3

VERY good advice. Thanks!
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Oh sweet! I'm heading for the station to take a look right now ;) Thank you!

That was really well said! It took a while for me to figure things out, but I continue to be amazed on a daily basis at what is happening here.

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i have faith in this platform as well but as more and more people joining this platform more ''wolves'' are coming, but i wanna think ourselves as lions so we can easily cast those wolves aside!