I don't know of anyone that takes more time to read, understand and reply comments on their posts than you do. It would be crazy for anyone to complain about your response.
Anyhow, if i ever get overwhelmed the first and most important thing I do is to take a breather. Then I draw up a scale of preference, then the whole thing will eventually sort itself out.
I like that. Take a breather. Remind me of when I used to play football. We used to take breathers after hard workouts. For me this breather involves getting outside in the fresh air and just taking my time. Helps my brain unwind.
And I am doing the best I can. I know some are not worried about it as I am but it means alot to me to give support back. Thanks