some hateful people even contacted ned to un-vote one of my video posts he had voted for (which he did obviously because I’m the bad guy now, not like the old days!), they also contacted some of the people voting for my posts to stop doing it which they complied to under pressure
This is pretty serious accusations you are throwing here. Frankly I don't image anyone bothering to "conspire" about your case, and even less @ned and other whales caving in under "pressures" in particular concerning a matter as mundane as the relative value of your photography posts. Given that you are the one who started to cry "slander" because some curators have dared to challenge you on your definition of fair use, I hope that you have really sound evidence to back your claims.
Evidence > accusations.