I would say. Og you Really want to be treated a certain way, you should act the same way.
Love and relationship is very fragile and as they say it is a thin line between love and hate.
When i want my gf to to or change behaviour in a certain way er talk about it. I ask her what she feels when i do the same thing and if it's something i do i could try to change for her benefits. In that way i opening up a forum for us to discuss request, change and other topics.
I am always very humble with theese things because i know i can not request ør Seland anything from anyone. The only thing i know i can change is my view and toughts about thing and things happenings.
So my answer is. Be humble. Be reflected. And offer something before you ask the other partner om the relationship so it's a better and more open enviroment for change and requests.
Good luck to everyone.
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