"The five people you spend the most time with shape who you are"
Great post! It´s so important to surround yourself with positive people.
I think at first we should figure out if that person is just going through a rough time and might needs our help or if it´s simply a toxic person. Of course we can try to inspire them and use our positive behavior to be an example. If that doesn´t work, it might be better to cut that person out.
Oh dear! In recent times its just ME ME and again ME hahahaha #Justkidding! Kind off.....
anyone can change only if they want to change, no matter what kind of time anyone is going through, they will always be the same person.
If they are good, they will see it and change themselves, if they aren't they will just keep heading their way.
Well, what I´m trying to say is that a person that is going through a rough break up for example, can change his behavior and become moany and negative. If we don´t know about his circumstances and just assume and judge him as a toxic person we are doing that person wrong. Of course if they are conscious enough they will realize that shit themselves, heal their traumas and come to their senses. Not everyone is on that level of consciousness yet though so I think it´s our responsibility to at least try to get such a person back on the right way. If that won’t work we can still cut them out...
You are right, we should try for once.
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This is a fabulous way of thinking and I can't agree enough!!!!
I give chances but very carefully ....