Ok, so what's the catch? I want to know now too! :)
I've found that the catch is: Just as often as life can give you lemons, it can give you honey too! (I hear it's easier to catch a flying cockroach with honey than vinegar).
But no giving of unsolicited advice. So I'm just going to sit here with my mouth covered by my hands :) You're a strong person. As long as you have faith in yourself, that's all you'll need!