I love when I just got finished writing a post, then check the feed and find another expressing the same gist. Though I must say, secrets do have power, and showing your hand too easily can become a bad habit. There was a time when I expressed my feelings without reflection as to the consequences of the statement. It was a result of poor boundaries (as I also mentioned in that post, lol) and shoring them up has done me alot of good. It's still a work in progress.
My expressions have therefore become even more valuable, in the long term.
yes it is best to hold back, to think before we act and yes definitely have boundaries put in place x I will come check out your post soon xx