The first of my siblings to get married was my eldest brother and he met her wife I think because of friends because they are both teachers and they have a common friend hat bridged them that eventually lead them to each other. They had been phone pals and after we had a telephone line they were chatting on the phone for hours until one day it came to a point that my brother introduced my future sister-in-law with us and we went to their home to ask for the hand of my in-law and they were married after.
The same with my other siblings which really burned the phone line with their endless chatter and mindless matters that only lovers would enjoy. The second one to get married was my sister and they got married in a church near us and the reception where the guests arrived to eat was in a clubhouse and all goes well. They were given with three girls because my sister couldn't produced a boy and I don't know if they ever have a plan again to give a birth on one but I think my sister already had a tied ovary already.
Thee third to get married was the second to the eldest. He could have married earlier than the first two if it wasn't for me because he was the one supporting me the first time I got hooked up in dialysis. He has a first girlfriend but sadly I told him to not chose her because their blood is prone to having a diabetes. Her uncles and relatives have a diabetes which have it or died from it and if they get married together their offsprings would be prone to develop diabetes and it is not good at all. We realized that medical maladies should stop to me only.
So he got married in a civil wedding where a local judge officiated the proceedings. Then we all proceeded in a restaurant where we just eat together. There is one pot of dish for every three persons so I made it a point to let myself the first to get some before someone else does since there isn't much from the pot for three persons. So the uncle of my sister in law is scratching his head on what happened to the pot of peanut dish because really there isn't any much for everybody as my brother really is skimped their budget on their wedding.
They had two boys and will never have another one again because my sister in law is very delicate in bearing a baby all the way until giving birth and cannot get up or the baby inside the womb would die and my brother just does all the job. Both my brothers does the laundry which in my own standards is not really right since their wives are quite capable of doing it, quite a love for their wives ha ha. I recall my eldest brother that he enjoys doing the laundry because it was a good exercise for him.
So I see my siblings and my friends marry and have kids and makes me also wonder if I had a family of my own probably we are also happy and have kids that I will really made to be taught of the things that want to do like painting and other self-fulfillment activities. I may find myself opening a shop and selling stuffs and closing on the evening and going home to my family waiting for me on a hot meal which we would share together. I just exhale a deep sigh when I get to thnk of those things If only things did not take for the worse I could also had the family of my own.
dont worry @cryptopie.. we always want to be your family in here. @cryptopie
Hello @cryptopie my friend
You are always concerned about what might not work well. one thing i want you to know is that, the more you worry about things, the more you get yourself depressed and you won't be able to realize when what you are thinking about has finally come.
I know is not easy seeing your friends and sibling gotten married and left you behind. but the truth is, no matter the number of people that got married around you, their own cannot stop your own marriage.
I believe that very soon you will have family that you will call your own.
I care much about your feelings my friend.
Best regards @funkylove
Sometimes i want to go far away from this rigid world and disappear in a world of my own. May God bless you and make all you're worries go away.
Hi love, you can have whatever you want no matter what you think it is wrong with you. I have read of worse cases who are married and have a family. Stop letting yourself down, for every guy there is a girl or more who wants him. You are far better than most people who you think they are perfect, you can have a family and you will have a family but always remember to invite me when the time comes. Looking forward to your wedding invitation.
God bles you nice post
This is life and I know that God will make your wishes come true, Oh Lord! Please ! ..... Amen
This post is valuable of family to survive the life.
i pray for u and your family.thanks for sharing post......
This is an interesting family story
it took a lot of helping hand to help this child sorry shed tears
I never dreamed to have my own family. I dreamed to be a NUN. (^_^)