Self Actualisation: Stronger Me

in #ussminnowprize7 years ago

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I have always been someone who is so reluctant about trying out a new thing, not because am comfortable in my present condition but because of fear of failure and that has led me to miss out on so many opportunities that i should have taken advantage of

I don't know why i am like that, but when studying HRM, we were told 2 factors can shape the perception of human, they are HEREDITY & ENVIRONMENT

I grew up in a large family where its the fittiest that will survive, me being someone who hates competition, i lost so many competition against my stronger brothers and this has greatly devastate my self believe.

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Help was what i needed and i was struggling to stand up on my feet, tried so many things in life just to be acclaimed and respected.

Not the type that believe in exhorbitant life, i do what i need to do, i do things not to please anyone but stuff that makes me happy, that has not earned me a lot of friend.

if you want to walk fast you can go with a lot of people but if you want to walk far, you have to go alone.

Seriously i hardly see someone who understand the type of person i really am, a lot of people thinks you are pretending to be who you are, i begin to wonder why is it so hard for people to believe you mean well for them

My philosophy is

RespEcT Few, FEar NoNe.


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I believe that is what led to me letting opportunities slip away.
But now that has stopped i am jetting for the highest position.

I am in a position where i have a strong focus and never to lose it, i know what my future would look like, because

my parent was crawling so that i could run, now am running so that my children could FLY.

New year

New me

same God

Look forward to my next post, unleashing the face of STeemit dollars SBD. My naira SBD..
I love you all.

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Damn it!! I look so Cool xD

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Phenomenal post bro!

Fear none, you are infinite energy on the move!

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Peace out brotha

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Food for thoughts.

Everyone has cloudy part in life, no matter how dark the night is the day will surely break and gives brightness. Never fear failure, if you do so, you have just bn rubbed of fortune.
Keep it up bro, love your writing.

I love this positive message of getting out of your own way. Looking forward to your many achievements.

Wow, am moved by this your writing

now this is one mindset i can totally relate to. i also had my fair share of difficulty getting along with alot of people while growing up cus i didn't feel good enough. it's a good thing you too have found a way around it.


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Ganks for rge message and please follow back@deeclown nice post......and i can totally relate....and i know 2018 is gonna be great cos dome decisions have been made.....

good mindset. do what your inner conscience tells you to do because that is the voice of the Almighty himself. stay blessed. I can relate to what you have written I have been bullied while in school and now by my extended family members but I don't give in easily and God helps me through each tribulation. I keep getting the msg that God will exalt you in due time.

Am delighted that in all these wavy past, u remain resolute and focus.
The future can only get better bro...

Keep on running, and keep this positive outlook and energy. It is refreshing.

I learned that in life we don't need to fight to be respected because we will waste time and focus on what we love or need to do .

So, if we do what we need to do for us then the others respect will come.
After we accomplish our ideas and dreams we will become as a respected person by others.

Also, helping and respecting others is a good thing. You don't need to respect others for things you don't like or just because it needs to.

We must respect each other as human beings. But is a difference between simple respect and honorable one.

So, you must go on with your life and just live life.

Cheers

I always remind myself... if I fear God, what can man do to me? They can take away comforts, they can kill the body, but there is nothing they can do to my soul. Fear Him, the God of creation, the Most High. He is highly blessed. @ironshield