I learned that in life we don't need to fight to be respected because we will waste time and focus on what we love or need to do .
So, if we do what we need to do for us then the others respect will come.
After we accomplish our ideas and dreams we will become as a respected person by others.
Also, helping and respecting others is a good thing. You don't need to respect others for things you don't like or just because it needs to.
We must respect each other as human beings. But is a difference between simple respect and honorable one.
So, you must go on with your life and just live life.
Cheers