Hi @jolly-homestead...I hear ya! I have 12 grandchildren aged 1 to 12 and 3 children aged 32 to 36. I vaccinated all my kids and had no dramas My oldest child has 4 children and elected to vaccinate, he has 1 high functioning autistic child and 1 pending diagnosis. My second child and 6 children and chose to vaccinate, she has one confirmed high functioning autistic child and 2 pending diagnosis. My third child has 2 children and chose not vaccinate and has 2 severely autistic children.
So the only great wisdom I have for you is that my daughter who chose not to vaccinate did so because of the mercury in the vaccinations and her daughter (my grand daughter) contracted severe whooping cough as an infant which still affects her lungs at age 8.
It's a complex issue...but I gave my opinion then empowered them to make their own decisions because at the end of the day, they have to live with the consequences of the decisions that are made about their children's health, no matter what my opinion might be.