Attraction is attraction, I get that. Health is important, I get that. But public ridicule is OK? It's ok to stop the car and call out MOOOO to somebody that is out for a run trying to better their health? It's ok for sales people to not help me, because why? Because they might catch my overweight like you can a cold? And what about the medical professionals that immediately chose to not dig into WHY I had a weight problem? It's ok for them to be repulsed and not get to the route of my problem?
My post was not poor me why aren't men attracted to me. My post was about the world treating me unfairly and differently in things totally not related to sex and attraction. Yes, I had a blurb in there about online dating. And I even acknowledged that I get it's an attraction thing.
Discrimination and ridicule is not ok under any circumstances, in my opinion.
And my reply was not about shaming.
I was telling you that you do not ask a small thing. You ask a huge thing.
I don't see it any differently than asking for fairness of any kind. But you are right, it's a pretty huge thing.
That is the thing I am trying to point out to you.
It is a LOT different than asking for fairness.
And, actually, obesity is catching. It will be much easier to explain this in the future when we actually work out cause and effect.
Lets look at smoking. Many people feel it is ok to get on people's cases about smoking. When smoking is much less destructive than obesity to society and to health in general.
Unfortunately, you throw into this mix that the govern-cement actually wants you fat and docile. They want to see destruction. So, everything they tell you about health is almost completely backwards. imho 90% of what is in grocery stores should be banned. (but not banned by govern-cements, everyone should realize just how bad it is for you and never touch the stuff. Like, worse than cigarettes bad.)