Who are these people who can balance everything with the added mix of children? On the one hand I want to learn from them, on the other I don't want to know as I will feel thoroughly inept then! XD
You have a bit going on so yeh definitely get the important stuff out of the way first :D
One would imagine that having more than one child entitles you a place among their ranks haha! What if every parent feels they're ill-equipped, but other parents look at them and admire how well organized they are? I bet you're being way too hard on yourself, mate. Classic Fyn haha!