Love your little story ending with the dishes line. I can see him smiling as he said it ;)
Man it's a tough one here. I suppose that's why i needed to blurt it all out.
Just because you are dying does not give you a licence to others through your actions
This is the bottom line really isn't it, but when I dig deeper I can see this behaviour was there before the cancer, passed down like a family tradition from her own mother, who died of cancer by the way.
The patterns of thought are entrenched because they have been there forever. And it is not my place to do anything about this.
The positive in all of this is for Sabrina who is opening her eyes for the first time to who her mother really is. Naturally, many of her mother's thinking habits have been passed on and through recognising their origin I think she will be in a much better place to release them.