Good morning my lovely friend. I remember when you lost your hubby and I cried for you both. You have suffered, yet you somehow pulled it together and I so admire your strength. I am so amazed how you have managed the farm, the house, which is so gorgeous, and all that you do with the gardens and phew!, just all of it.
Great advise, plan ahead, talk about what will eventually come, there is no escaping it. I have to admit, having a big family will surely carry me over my finish line too. In that, I am blessed.
Hope this finds you well and happy. you are a wonderful friend.