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I guess is the mindset of a builder, like i build this home, is my home, i made it with my own hands, or something like that?

He built it with all his hard earned money - even he was the architect. Later we extended, but he did buy the huge land.

That is a prove of how much he loved you, he maded that home for his sons in a way or another, one men only builds a house for love of for ego, and i think he did it out of love. An example of a parent, because it kept going and extended even when you guys were all grow up.