P.S. I forgot to mention brutes or hypocrites, but it goes without saying concerning someone. 🙂
Haha, @vikthor I know it's hard for them to digest. I recall there's a person who used to deny the existence of God, but now this person use His name. There are many characteristics of their hypocrisy that are evident. But they are not aware of it.
For me, it's enough to witness these kind of attitude. It's a big red flag that we should avoided. When I tried to remember it back, I feel that these people are only try to fit accordingly to what they believe.
It's even worse when they try to humiliate you and bring you down to the lowest level, thinking that's the best they can do. But in reality, it's the opposite. Their own lives are miserable, yet they say that yours is worse. This kind of people will never want to see you happy.
And other than hypocrite, people who are fond of lying to me, are not to be trusted, and I will never believe a single story they tell. This is because it has become their habit to live through deception. I wasted my time through this person deception, and I am well aware of how this person stoops so low just to live a life full of lies.
If there would be a 1000% vote button, I would wholeheartedly vote your very beautiful and accurate comment, I truly mean it! I couldn't agree more! I don't know why some people would resort to lies and deception in their relationships with others... ultimately they will have nothing to gain, not that gain in itself would be something that you should seek first and foremost when relating to your fellow men, but they are not that intelligent either. I am very sad for your your negative experience and I truly hope that won't ever happen to you again with any other person similar to the previous one which you described. I truly wish you all the best, a wonderful Christmas, and many blessings throughout this month! Much respect, take care, and stay safe! 🙂
It's okay. What happened to me, I see it as the worst experience in my life. Even though many may have deceived me, it wasn't as bad as this. For me, don't trust sweet words too much, and it's better to be aware that people like this definitely have red flags, which I realized early on but pretended to be blind to judge them, because I was swept away by their sweet words.
However, after that incident, I became more cautious. Until now, I'm not in a hurry to be with anyone else. I'm not that desperate to continue being with someone else. I have my own pride that I should think of. It's very difficult for me to trust anyone. So it's better for me to focus only on what's more important in my life.
Thank you so much for your insightful comment. I feel that there are still many men out there who think like you because it's all about self-respect and honor. I hope that your days are always blessed and thank you for everything. 🙏🤗
I am very sad once again for your negative experience, no one deserves this... and this is how trust keeps on shrinking in other people. I've been there myself on more than one occasion and I know hot excruciatingly bad and painful it can be, hence I can definitely relate... You are very correct when referencing seemingly sweet words: it's very important to delineate seemingly sweet words (which are fake) from real ones, which can be even plain and neutral sometimes, but at least their are truthful and honest (and not sugar coating for who knows what nasty underlying or hidden wants).
It's also better to be alone or single than to be in a disastrous relationship or a dysfunctional one (which ends nowhere and becomes non-functional and very toxic along the way). Respecting one's boundaries and privacy is key to any healthy relationship. At the same time, red flags shouldn't ever be ignored. Healthy relationships, both ways, are very important if people are straightforward, understanding, and respectful to each other so that those flags shouldn't multiply. All the best once again and much respect! Have a very beautiful time here on Hive and beyond! And thank you so much once again for your warm wishes! The very same to you! 😊