When you set your own market, you set the rules.
We had (maybe) half a dozen meets in over three years, that were 'awkward'.
Out of hundreds.
Shit happens, a job is still a job.
We never had any truly negative experiences.
The biggest part of the work?...A friendly ear.
Psychotherapy almost. Seriously.
We had clients where, after after a few meets, sex was never even on the agenda - it was about having open dialogue and clients being around others who allowed them to be themselves.
I'd go even further than that, and say that 80-90% of escorts meets are rarely about just getting naked and having sex.
Until I did this work, I never realized the sheer amount of unhappy, and very repressed people that there are out there.
I've lost count of the amount of people breaking down in tears because of their personal circumstances.
It was an excellent learning experience regarding psychology and human behavior.
When people are truly naked (metaphorically and literally) the mask slips away - and that is what clients happily pay $200+ an hour for....
I am certain it's exactly the way you describe it, which makes my comment and your answer worth to be read.
People pay for kindness and having a good time. One can look at it from different perspectives, can one? I often heard that it's not always about sex but about having a sincere company. If the client can relax into that, even though he pays for it, then it's all good, I think. It's people trying to shame both who are the judges. That can turn someone around.
I bet, it was an excellent learning experience and I don't judge you for that.
I just could not do it myself, I am not relaxed enough. Lol.
That's for sure. If shit happens, you let it happen and move along :)
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Greetings! :)