Open Letter to Prosecutors: "Prosecute Me!"
If anyone asks me what the most stressful experience in my life was, the answer is easy: when I had to face my thesis defense. Yes, it may sound trivial to some people, but believe me, it felt like being in a real courtroom!
Just imagine, you are standing in front of a "panel of judges" consisting of killer lecturers with their serious faces. The difference is, instead of being sued for a criminal offense, you are asked to defend an argument about why your research deserves a bachelor's degree. "Prosecute me, Prof!" - that's what I shouted at that time.
I still clearly remember how my knees felt shaking when I started my presentation. Sweaty hands gripping the pointer, a slightly trembling voice explaining the research methodology. The examiners? They sat there with expressions that were hard to guess - half Buddha, half Sphinx.
The most interesting thing is how our brains work in situations like this. Everything we have learned for months suddenly evaporates into thin air. Scientific terms that were previously memorized by heart suddenly feel foreign to the tongue. Even a simple definition can feel like trying to explain quantum physics to a kindergartener.
But you know what’s really funny? Often, the most dreaded questions never come up. We spend weeks preparing answers to tough questions, only to be asked the very basics we’ve overlooked. How ironic!
In the midst of all that tension, I learned one important thing: sometimes we take things too seriously. We build walls of fear that are so high that they’re unnecessary. The examiners aren’t bloodthirsty executioners — they just want to make sure we really understand what we’re doing.
Now, whenever I face a challenging situation, I always think of that trial moment. “Prosecute me!” is no longer an expression of fear, but a bold statement that shows that we’re ready to face the challenge. Because at the end of the day, every “prosecution” in life is an opportunity to prove ourselves and grow.
And hey, if you’re facing your own “trial” — whether it’s an important presentation, a job interview, or even a first date — remember that nerves are normal. Make “Prosecute me!” your mantra of encouragement. After all, if you think about it, isn't it better to be sued to prove yourself than to not be given the chance at all?
Most importantly, don't forget to smile. Because sometimes, even in the most serious situations, a little humor can be an unexpected lifesaver. And who knows, maybe your "prosecutor" is also secretly holding back laughter at your unnecessary panic.
So, are you ready to be sued? Lift your chin, stand up straight, and say with confidence: "Prosecute me!"