Everyone when taking a risk or going into a new venture want or need at least a 50/50 chance. Not me though. I always like to get a 60/40. I work better that way. This isn't something I'll normally do but I couldn't resist.
The day before yesterday, I was having conversations were a guy brazenly said "women can't cheat but men can." It's funny how my mind went to cooperate factors instead of looking at the conversation the way it is.
Now, if you haven't noticed this before, Marriage is an investment but you don't get the finished product immediately. Infact, marriage to me is the biggest and widest form of capitalism.
We have the individuals with mutual interest who merge together. Their hardwork tells on the quality of their lives. Then we have the staffs at work which happen to be their emotions and experience and also their personalities. There has to be a compromise at some point between the two individuals to arrive at a desired circumstance.
Move forward, times begin to tell if they are managing their investment really well, if they are, their products(or offspring) go out to the world with some kind of content. No. They add content. But this can't be told immediately as it would take years to eventually manifest. Heh. To me, the day before yesterday, children began to look like physical NFTs. Is that bad? Where are these thoughts even coming from? Lol. I remember @young-boss-karin saying she wanted one virtual kid and one physical child, a metaverse wedding and a family which would eventually move to the metaverse. Hilarious! 😂
But as marriage is an investment does this mean you'd go into it blindly? Of course not. Hehe.
Like every other business/investment, you first need to have the will and then the plan. Your thoughts would be what do I want in the long run? How'd I want to live a few years after? But before all that we consider the 4Ps.
Package: Who do I want to marry? What do I want to achieve in that marriage?
Place: Where am I right now? Would it benefit me in anyway?
Promotion: is she/he worthy? Could they give out as much as I give in?
Profit: Would I regret it? I want it 50/50.
All these, of course, are determined in the long run. These two individuals are undertaking a very serious business that requires as much work from one like the other. So before choosing your partner or merging your business, you'd like to do a background check.
Financially speaking: Is this company noteworthy? Do they have any debts? What is their operation like? And what do the books say? I'd like to know the brains behind all this, anything illegal? Give me an overall account of what I'm getting into.
Right here, Transparency is needed. If the business/person is too shady, red flag. The past is as important as the present. We all like to be prepared. Now let's look at this practically...
Maritally speaking: Just imagine you getting married to a lady who had Uterine cancer and miraculously survived but lost the ability to conceive. Now as a man, that is the first thing she should share with you if you do show love interests. But then she doesn't. As years go by you don't bear fruit. You never even knew she had cancer.
That'll be awful. Given that even if she does conceive, that child is at risk too. The man oblivious would feel he didn't do something right and wasn't Father enough which would break him. Same with partnership.
When one individual keeps hiding a lot of information from the other, there's a huge chance for a blunder that'll eventually finish them both and all they worked for. No one wants that. Even as a single person going into an investment, you'd have a lot of questions. Any venture that leaves you with a lot of question marks rather than knowledge is bad. Red flag!
Whatever you're undertaking, get knowledge first. Take your time to understand how it works and what is needed. Don't rush. I tell this to myself too when trying to understand Crypto Shitcoins.
Hehehe. It's kinda fun comparing Marriage like this. Some may have an issue but it's just the truth. When I told the man that a woman, infact that no one wants to "put their whole eggs in one basket" he took it wrong. He said "men can cheat, women can't, especially in marriage."
Well, that marriage is dead and that's what would happen to any partnership on the inside. No more trust and a very huge rift should the other find out. Years of hardwork killed. I mean, you spent your whole life building something just to hand it over to a really minute circumstance? That's bad.
An Entrepreneur doesn't consider just him but everyone with and under him.
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The news about marriages alone can be scary... Taking it as a business venture right is a sure bet at least both partners can benefit equally.
Marriage is no child's play. That your entire life. Hah.
Marriage as a business venture, interesting
🤣🤣🤣, but actually. They may or may not rise in value.
I think taking marriage as a business isn't a bad idea. Maybe I'll think of it this way when I'm ready.
Also anyone who says only Men can cheat is just being dumb or selfish.
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Your perception of marriage as a business partnership is quite apt. It's funny how people think marriage is entirely about love. I don't blame many who get married solely because of it and subsequently file for divorce on the basis of "falling out of love". I rather blame the Romance and Rom-Com movies that make marriage seem far from the actual reality. Would you merge a business you have been working on for over 27 years with another's without proper investigation or digging? When conducting business, you need to vet the credibility of the other party. But somehow you jump into a relationship with your eyes closed and hope for the best. It didn't work.
I love how you saw this. I don't see me marrying for just love. A lot is required. I'm handing over my entire life. So jumping in blindly will not happen.
Soap operas and romance novels have shut their eyes. Marriage is a Lifetime of work not "happy-ever-after".
Disney movies make it end at "and they lived happily ever after". Even when I was 13 I always wondered about issues that would come after Cinderella married "the Prince". They never show you that part.
"Wahala" that's what comes. A lot of caution and Communications. Compromise and evaluation. Jeez. Ah. I will marry o! 😩🤧
Marriage is one of the greatest investments, I once wrote about it and sadly a lot of people don't think before they rush into it hence it ends badly.
For me, it is not only about love but do our plans match up because if it doesn't, there will be problem.
Plans, vision, goals, philosophy– these need to be mutual on both sides for any magic to happen.
Exactly, and the lack of it brings problems but then again some marriages without all these last also.
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Someone wants virtual kid on the metaverse, wtf 😅😅
It's deemed possible 🌚
😂 I love business and am the guy that sees business in almost anything, but marriage, I haven’t seen it or imagined it to be like a business before, not until I read this article. Nice piece of work, the way you described and related marriage to investment, am deep in my thoughts right now. 🤔, can I invest in 2 or more businesses(marriage) at once? Or that rule doesn’t apply?
LMAO 🤣. Ya mad o. You'd end up crushing one because unlike solid investment, this is your life and someone else. This is why we have broken hearts 😂
So we can’t diversify our investment? Not fair though
LMFAO....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣