I love how you saw this. I don't see me marrying for just love. A lot is required. I'm handing over my entire life. So jumping in blindly will not happen.
Soap operas and romance novels have shut their eyes. Marriage is a Lifetime of work not "happy-ever-after".
Disney movies make it end at "and they lived happily ever after". Even when I was 13 I always wondered about issues that would come after Cinderella married "the Prince". They never show you that part.
"Wahala" that's what comes. A lot of caution and Communications. Compromise and evaluation. Jeez. Ah. I will marry o! 😩🤧