now i have two cats that are kinda ours. Mother of the older one was probably a half wild and fully paranoid, she just showed up whit him and was in the yard but always hiding. And she was just gone after a while. But he has that paranoia in his dna. and he has that attitude of, yea human you are ok, you give me food, and you could touch me sometimes, but i am not really fully happy with that, most of the times.
And second one came from somewhere when he was maybe 5-6 months old, and thought to himself there is food here, this older cat does not really love me, but he tolerates me, i think i will stay here :D
It's funny how cats tend to attach themselves to people like this...They tend to maintain their standards though...You can feed and shelter me, but only touch me when I say! Lol.