Hi @galenkp. It is subject of which I speak very little but I am 35 years old, this year I turn 36, I could still conceive but I do not think it will happen, both by my own decision and partner; he is much older than me, he has children and in his plans is not to raise at his age. It is possible that in the future I may regret not trying but at the moment I am fine. I believe that having a child is something very serious that not only implies providing emotional stability but also economic stability. At least to cover their basic needs and I live in a country where it is very difficult for this to happen.
Hello @liseth.zamora, my age is closer to you. I'm running 35 in the next two months but I still wished to have a baby. I am waiting for 6 months now and still hoping. If God will allow me to be a mother again, then He would probably grant it. If not, for sure I won't have another baby anymore.
Having a baby is really a difficult thing to decide nowadays. Hopefully God will grant the desires of heart according to His will.
Hi @jenthoughts . Here I am, responding 1 day later. Thank you so much for your comment. God bless you and your babies. God's will is good, pleasing and perfect.
By the way, congratulations on your year in hive, it's a great achievement 👏.
I have only one child and asking for one. I hope God grant our prayer soon because my age can't stop growing hehehe.
Yes thank you so much I am happy reaching this milestone.
Sometimes life doesn't work out how we expect and we need to move on accepting it, especially in respect of things that cannot be changed. Clearly, you've thought it through and have made decisions around your deliberations and that's how it should be. Move life forward in other ways, find happiness and contentment, and that's all there is too it. I know you know what I mean...There's no point dwelling on the negative, that comes at the expense of the positive.
Thanks for taking the time to comment and share a little of your own story.
That's right, I understand. It's something that I don't mention it a lot, like I said. I've also thought that everything has a reason. And from the bottom of my heart that's what I chose and I continue to choose every day, I feel good about that.
life is too precious to waste by focusing on things that cannot be changed. I like that you're choosing to live a good one, the best you can, as that means you'll move forward with less regret.
And as for you, I am 100% sure you would have been a great father. You have so much to contribute. The love you give to your nieces and nephews is a small part of everything you would offer to a child.
Thank you, I can't be certain as it'll never happen, although I think I might have been a good parent. I appreciate you saying so.